It's has been a very long time, I didn't blog.
Recently, has been met up with my friend, Boon Yew, quite frequently. Last saturday, met up with him at his place because he helped me to record the 7 pm (Saturday) drama serials. After watching the video, we had heart to heart talk.
He told me that he is interested in me and he wants to get marry with me, but he told me that he can't afford to throw wedding dinner because he has no money. He said that he has no money now as he still owes his sister's money (he bought a resale 3 room flat at Ang Mo Kio, the ex-owner was asking from him $10k cash for the house) and he is also paying his study loan (got his master degree last year). So these 2 to 3 years, he has to pay for his loans. Then, he suggested that just go for ROM.
After hearing what he said, I was quite disappointed and depressed. I disappointed is because marriage is once in a life time and it is every girl's dream to have a romantic and memorable wedding. To me, I would like to be a beautiful bride and have a wonderful wedding. Depressed is I really don't know whether I should accept him as my boyfriend cum husband. We have been knowing each other around 20 over years. All these while, we are friends and frankly speaking, I don't really knows him well. Though knows him for over 20 over years, he doesn't share with me about his family and himself. He used to be ignorant and selfish. He don't really care for friends and he wouldn't be bother about it.
Sometimes, I really don't know what is on his mind. To be specify, we don't really goes well with each other. His thinking and my thinking is very far apart. He can plans for his future but as for me, i take one step by one step and takes nature as it's own course. I don't plans for my future as I know that life is short. We don't know what will happens to us tomorrow.
After last week, these few days, I have been thinking whether I should continue to meet up with him or starts relationship with him or not. I really in a dilema. Who can helps me???
Well, the only thing I can do now is let nature take it own course.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Children's Day
Yesterday was Children's Day (1/10/07).
I was on half-day mc due to having slight fever.
In the afternoon, went to my brother in law's office as his office is organising children's day party. All the parents brought their children to celebrate children's day.
The office is very big and all the colleagues is very helpful and friendly. There was this little eurasian boy, Patrick, 4 years old, very cute and smart. He speaks very well thought he is just only 4 years old. His mom is the HR Director of MTV.
There are snacks and games for us to play. We even tour the Company and it was very fun.
Took some photographs and shares with you all...............
I was on half-day mc due to having slight fever.
In the afternoon, went to my brother in law's office as his office is organising children's day party. All the parents brought their children to celebrate children's day.
The office is very big and all the colleagues is very helpful and friendly. There was this little eurasian boy, Patrick, 4 years old, very cute and smart. He speaks very well thought he is just only 4 years old. His mom is the HR Director of MTV.
There are snacks and games for us to play. We even tour the Company and it was very fun.
Took some photographs and shares with you all...............
Friday, September 28, 2007
人生无常
It had been sometimes I didn't blog.
Well, my colleague's mother passed away on 13th September 07 in SGH. Just bearly one month, after being diagonised that she had bladder cancer.
Well, it was good for her as she no needs to suffer so much as compared to those who are still struggling for their lives. As we look at the bright side, she is lucky as she only suffered for that one month. I heard of many people saying that those who has the 'C', they have to endure for the pain and have to go for the treatment which makes them vomitting and no strength. The body will become weak as days goes by.
So, considered my colleague's mother finally being '解脱' of the sickness. As what old people said : it's good that it reliefs the pain and who knows that she will be happy in the other world.
Nowadays, I try to look on the bright side. Though, working in a corporate environment, there is alot of polticial people around us and I will try my best no to think about it.
I try to be happy and don't think so much!
Well, my colleague's mother passed away on 13th September 07 in SGH. Just bearly one month, after being diagonised that she had bladder cancer.
Well, it was good for her as she no needs to suffer so much as compared to those who are still struggling for their lives. As we look at the bright side, she is lucky as she only suffered for that one month. I heard of many people saying that those who has the 'C', they have to endure for the pain and have to go for the treatment which makes them vomitting and no strength. The body will become weak as days goes by.
So, considered my colleague's mother finally being '解脱' of the sickness. As what old people said : it's good that it reliefs the pain and who knows that she will be happy in the other world.
Nowadays, I try to look on the bright side. Though, working in a corporate environment, there is alot of polticial people around us and I will try my best no to think about it.
I try to be happy and don't think so much!
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Resigned
Today, I'm surprised to hear that one of my colleague had tendered his resignation on Monday.
He just joined the Company in May 07 and has been with the Company for only barely four months. Never expected that he will tendered at this time as it is going towards end of the year and everyone is waiting for the year-end bonus.
He told me that he can't adapt the working culture here and also he can't get along with his boss. Well, his boss also joined the same month as him. Both of them have different working style.
Frankly speaking, in this working life, everyone has his or her problems. I do also has problems working with my bosses for the past 12 years in this Company. Everywhere you go, the Company and the bosses are the same.
Sometimes, I'm thinking, if all the bosses like my ex-company boss in Gleneagles, I will be very happy. I remember 12 years ago, when I joined them, (though only for about a year), I'm very happy because the two bosses, Margaret (HR Manager) and Irene (Assistant HR Manager) were a very good bosses. Every week, both of them will brought us out for lunch and if they can't make it during lunch hours, they will tried to make it after work for dinner. As both of them drive, so, we will sat on their car. Both bosses will paid for us for the lunch or dinner. Not only that, they will talked to us whenever they are free during working hours to ask us whether we can cope our work and makes jokes with us.
I joined for nearly about three months, both of them left Gleneagles. I was quite sad because in my ten over years working life, I never met such a good bosses. We are like own family members and we shared our happiness and sorrows.
I really missed those days..............and hope that in future, I can bump into them and see them again.
He just joined the Company in May 07 and has been with the Company for only barely four months. Never expected that he will tendered at this time as it is going towards end of the year and everyone is waiting for the year-end bonus.
He told me that he can't adapt the working culture here and also he can't get along with his boss. Well, his boss also joined the same month as him. Both of them have different working style.
Frankly speaking, in this working life, everyone has his or her problems. I do also has problems working with my bosses for the past 12 years in this Company. Everywhere you go, the Company and the bosses are the same.
Sometimes, I'm thinking, if all the bosses like my ex-company boss in Gleneagles, I will be very happy. I remember 12 years ago, when I joined them, (though only for about a year), I'm very happy because the two bosses, Margaret (HR Manager) and Irene (Assistant HR Manager) were a very good bosses. Every week, both of them will brought us out for lunch and if they can't make it during lunch hours, they will tried to make it after work for dinner. As both of them drive, so, we will sat on their car. Both bosses will paid for us for the lunch or dinner. Not only that, they will talked to us whenever they are free during working hours to ask us whether we can cope our work and makes jokes with us.
I joined for nearly about three months, both of them left Gleneagles. I was quite sad because in my ten over years working life, I never met such a good bosses. We are like own family members and we shared our happiness and sorrows.
I really missed those days..............and hope that in future, I can bump into them and see them again.
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Headache
Has been having headache since yesterday.
Everytime, before menus comes, I definitely have headache and it really kills me because no matter how many pandols you take, the headache still there.
I ever heard that it will be happened to anyone but it always happens to me. The headache will only go off when the menus comes, so have to bear with it.
Had been taking 2 pandols today and whole body very tired. I almost fall asleep while doing my work. I have to be attentive or else, will not be able to finish my work, so sian!
Everytime, before menus comes, I definitely have headache and it really kills me because no matter how many pandols you take, the headache still there.
I ever heard that it will be happened to anyone but it always happens to me. The headache will only go off when the menus comes, so have to bear with it.
Had been taking 2 pandols today and whole body very tired. I almost fall asleep while doing my work. I have to be attentive or else, will not be able to finish my work, so sian!
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