Frustrating

Yesterday, went out with friends. Then reached home, dad told me that Aunty Julie called and talked to him. He asked me to return her call. I was so pissed off because, last time, he was the one who asked me not to talked to her so much and now, asked me to call her.



Who is Aunty Julie? Aunty Julie is my niece's bf's mother. 7 years ago, her bf''s father fell down at home and was hospitalised. At that point of time, my niece just statrted came to know this bf through IRC. Then due to they just knew each other, she was inconvenienced to visit the bf's father in hospital, so I represented her to go to hospital to visit his bf's father. From there, that was I came to know his bf's family members.



Subsequently, went out with Aunty Julie and from there, she introduced her friend, Aunty Man to me. Aunty Man was a chief Nurse in SGH before she retired. She is a very caring, loving and concern person. She was married but divorced and she had a son who is not married and around 40+ years old. She will called and asked me out whenever she was free. I really like her alot as she is very understanding.



Wherelse, for Aunty Julie, she is okay, except, one thing I don't like her is because her mouth is very bad, always talked bad about other people and always makes up stories. She always like to critize her eldest daughter in-law. By the way, she had 2 sons. One of them was married and the younger son is my niece's bf.

Anyway, I try my best to make a distant with her. When she called you, she always like to complained to you about her daughter-in-law and my niece. Also, she will praised in front of you about her sons, saying them, one had been promoted to Assitant Director and the other one also had been promoted. I was thinking, who cares man! Why told me all these things when I'm not interested at all.

Then she also tried to find out from me about my niece's parents and their family matters. I'm so sickening about all these.....

If possible, how I wish I don't want to know her, at least, I don't have all these 'troubles'!

Sad

Yesterday, my neighbour told me that her friend's mother was diagnosed liver cancer and was in advance stage.

I know her friend through her and her sister is working in my Company and is my colleague. When I heard that my heart sank. I ever saw her mother before, that was somewhere last year. She looked so healthy and did not looked like she has any sickeness at all. Her mother is just only 50+, good in cooking and care for the family members.

As what people always said : "生命无常". 人真的是那么的脆弱。Think about it, we should treasure our family members and friends around us, don't take them for granted.

I sincerely hope that their mother can fight for the battle.